Buying a home together
More people are buying with a friend, sibling, parent or partner. It can make owning possible sooner. Here's how to split the costs fairly, and what to agree before you sign.
Ways to buy together
- Co-borrowing: everyone is on the loan and the title. All incomes count, and so do all debts and credit scores.
- A family member as co-signer: they help you qualify but may not live there. Their credit is on the line too.
- House hacking: buy a duplex (up to four units with FHA) or a home with a spare room, live in part and rent the rest.
- Renting a room to a lodger: the rent can help with the payment, but lenders may not count it as income.
Put it in writing before you buy
- Who paid what, and each person's share of ownership.
- How the mortgage, taxes, insurance, repairs and upgrades are split.
- What happens if someone can't pay, loses their job or wants to leave.
- How a buy-out price is set, and how long the others have to buy.
- What happens on a death, a marriage or a breakup.
A real estate attorney can draft a co-ownership agreement. It costs far less than a dispute later.
Common questions
Can friends or family buy a house together?
Yes. Two or more people can buy together and be on the loan together (co-borrowers). The lender looks at everyone's income, debts and credit, so one person's low score or high debts can affect the rate or approval.
How should co-buyers hold the title?
Common choices in Florida are tenants in common (each owns a share, which can be unequal, and passes to their heirs) and joint tenancy with right of survivorship (equal shares that pass to the other owners). Married couples can use tenancy by the entirety. A real estate attorney or title company can explain which fits you.
Do we need a co-ownership agreement?
It's strongly recommended. Put in writing who paid what, who owns what share, how the bills are split, what happens if someone can't pay, and how a buyer-out or sale works if someone wants to leave.
What is house hacking?
Buying a home and renting out part of it, such as a room or one side of a duplex, so the rent helps with the mortgage. FHA loans allow up to four units if you live in one.
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